She is a great cook, she has a great sense of style, the way she walks is so captivating, she whips up great meals, she is so fair in complexion, her dark skin is so attractive, I could go on and on about this descriptions that may fit your partner, conversely, you would agree with me that if your once lovely wife now nags a lot, then there is tendency that you have pushed her to into the habit.
Chances are that you are now drawn back and may not even remember how enchanting she looks any more. A Nagging wife or partner is one of the worst things that may happen to a man. As some men put it; they say, ‘I’d rather have a peaceful time outside home than come home to meet a nagging woman’.
Whew! Now that isn’t a good one. But wait a minute! For how long are you going to keep avoiding your woman? Well, you can help save the situation by learning how to cope very well with a nagging wife, as well as help her out of the habit.
Here goes….
1. Learn To Be Calm
This might not come too easy for some men. Especially, because we all know that men are the ones who hold their ego so dearly. In addition to that, more often than not, they prefer the women to be on the receiving end. Hence, you have to be the one to calm down in an irritating and annoying scenario as this, but that might not in any case go down well with you. However, truth is; you both cannot be raging lousy at the same time. It is for that reason that you have got to be calm. Listen to what she may be ranting about. She may be right and just doesn’t know how to manage her temper.
2. Talk things through
After she has gone on her ‘you should do this and you should do that’ rampage, then you may want to talk about it. This might be hard for some men, but if for nothing, do this for the love of your marriage and for the love for peace to reign in the home. When emotions are cool, then now is a good time to let her know how annoying her nagging habit is. Do make sure that you pass your message across with love and respect- after all you want a happy wife. Be firm as the head of the home, and yet make her see how you want her to make amend.
3. See to Those Things She Nags About
If in the true sense of the word you are guilty of all the things she fumes about, then you have got to begin to look at ways to adjust. Truth is that your once loving wife, didn't wake up one day nuts ( please do permit me say), bottom-line is that you are stepping on a very painful nerve and so she really wants you to adjust but perhaps lacks how to send the message across without fuming. Hence, it is vital that you know that you are contributing to her evolving into a bitter nag.
Chances are that you are now drawn back and may not even remember how enchanting she looks any more. A Nagging wife or partner is one of the worst things that may happen to a man. As some men put it; they say, ‘I’d rather have a peaceful time outside home than come home to meet a nagging woman’.
Whew! Now that isn’t a good one. But wait a minute! For how long are you going to keep avoiding your woman? Well, you can help save the situation by learning how to cope very well with a nagging wife, as well as help her out of the habit.
Here goes….
1. Learn To Be Calm
This might not come too easy for some men. Especially, because we all know that men are the ones who hold their ego so dearly. In addition to that, more often than not, they prefer the women to be on the receiving end. Hence, you have to be the one to calm down in an irritating and annoying scenario as this, but that might not in any case go down well with you. However, truth is; you both cannot be raging lousy at the same time. It is for that reason that you have got to be calm. Listen to what she may be ranting about. She may be right and just doesn’t know how to manage her temper.
2. Talk things through
After she has gone on her ‘you should do this and you should do that’ rampage, then you may want to talk about it. This might be hard for some men, but if for nothing, do this for the love of your marriage and for the love for peace to reign in the home. When emotions are cool, then now is a good time to let her know how annoying her nagging habit is. Do make sure that you pass your message across with love and respect- after all you want a happy wife. Be firm as the head of the home, and yet make her see how you want her to make amend.
3. See to Those Things She Nags About
If in the true sense of the word you are guilty of all the things she fumes about, then you have got to begin to look at ways to adjust. Truth is that your once loving wife, didn't wake up one day nuts ( please do permit me say), bottom-line is that you are stepping on a very painful nerve and so she really wants you to adjust but perhaps lacks how to send the message across without fuming. Hence, it is vital that you know that you are contributing to her evolving into a bitter nag.
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