Don't let them get the better side of you

Have you ever felt this way before? Or you're probably feeling this way right now. It might just seem as if the whole world is conspiring against you, and your adversaries are just too strong for you. Is everyone pointing a finger at you? And it feels as though there is just no way you can vindicate yourself. This feeling can make

you suicidal, but common on it isn't worth it at all. You don't need everyone one liking you anyway, no matter how innocent you think you are. You can't decide who likes or dislikes you, but you can however decide your response to either their like or dislike.

When fingers are pointed at you, it only makes you a centre of attraction. If you are not guilty as charged, then no cause for alarm. When people point fingers at you without any reason, it only means that you probably have something that they don't and they can't stand it. We call such people in Naija, "enemies of progress". The best way to deal with such people is to act as if they don't exist, and soon they will shift their fingers to somewhere else.

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