9 Things To Avoid When Things Are Heating Up In The 'other Room'

if you know you will come here to start condemning please just read and go no one is a saint here  There are some things that have the absolute certainty to kill the moment when you’re both in the throes of passion i am going to list out these things you should never let waves of passion carry you away to do, unless you want to douse the flames ...

1. Never turn down a 'condom' request 
Whether you are the male or the female in the situation, if one wants to use a condom and the other doesn’t, then that is a sign that your sexual paths should not be crossing at this time.

2. Never skip pre-intimacy because its very important
This is especially the case for women, who sometimes need a little more attention than men do before they can feel ready to go ahead and engage in the main event.

3. 'Never answer your phone during sex 
I don’t care if it’s the Pastor or the Queen of England, answering your phone during sex is the ultimate turn off for your partner who is trying to give you satisfaction in the moment!

4. Never call out the wrong names during sex 
Calling out the name of your ex during sex is a sure-fire way to end the night on a climax-less and depressing note!

5.Never shy away from kissing during sex 
For some reason some people have a thing about not kissing during sex, but kissing is one of the most intimate things you can share and it makes the whole experience so much better.

6. Never settle for faking it
If you get in to the habit of faking an orgasm, your partner is never going to know you aren’t satisfied, Instead, try to guide them in the right direction so that you can reach ultimate bliss! 

7. Never focus on your own pressure over others 
The point of sex of for a couple to give each other pleasure, so if you focus on yourself only, you are losing the integral part of the connection that makes sex so great.

8. Never be as quiet as a mouse
Sex is all about making your partner feel something, so if one of you is as quiet as a mouse, then the atmosphere is going to be really strange and not sexy at all. 

9. Never be too Rough on a partner 
This is all about communication, If your man is going too hard with his hands or any other part of himself, then you need to tell him! the same goes for a woman if her hands are squeezing a little too tight!