10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends

This write-up focuses on the ways some young guys display their frustration when their effort and attempt to find true love proved fruitless. The frustration of being rejected often make them say or do some things to console themselves

The fact that you could admit to see a part of yourself doing one of these things even till now does not give you the audacity to throw punches at me because I know that some of us might still find ourselves doing one of these things, while some might have outgrown these acts.


10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends 

1. They Become So Stingy 

My research and findings have shown that guys show their frustration by becoming overly stingy even more than Bode George that refused to drop a Kobo from the billions of Naira he embezzled. They often say they would rather throw their money in the toilet or river than spend it on ladies

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2. They Tell Their Friends That Going Into Relationships Is The Last Thing On Their Minds 

When guys have tried to woo various species of ladies and all attempt to find true love proved unsuccessful, this can be so frustrating. When such guys are in the midst of friends and are asked if they have girlfriends, they will reply saying that they chose to remain single and are not just ready to go into relationship, when in fact, reverse is the case.


3. Soap And Vaseline Becomes Their Friend 

I don't want to further elucidate before some people go start to dey throw chairs at me


4. They Say Relationship Is Bullshit 

Guys who often utter this statement definitely have a heart touching story (of how they were dumped) to tell. When ladies mess them up, they will always console themselves by dissuading other people from going into relationships, and will give reasons to back it up. Hehehe

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5. They Tag All Ladies Gold Diggers 

Personally, I believe that there are still ladies out there who still go into relationships not for their own selfish interest. Guys who have once fallen into the magazone will always tag all ladies gold diggers

6. They Mouth-Thrash The Lady That Refused To Date Them 

The way some ladies turn down guys can even make them commit suicide.
Since these guys cannot commit murder, they resort to console themselves by mouth-thrashing the lady that bashed them especially when they are in the midst of their friends and lady in question passes by. You will hear something like, Imagine, make dis girl dey use me do shakara. The girl no even fine at all. As in, I really downgrade yourself ooooo. They refer to the girl as being rude, proud and pompous. This is a statement they utter to console themselves

7. They Do Things That Will Make Her Jealous 

Once they notice the lady that turned them down bumps into them with a very pretty lady whom they have no romantic relationship with. They will start acting like they are actually dating the girl. They will hold her hands unnecessarily, touch her romantically and may even hug her. This is to make her jealous

8. They Update Status On BBM And Whatsapp Praising & Hyping Themselves 

When the lady that turned them down is in their BBM or whatsapp list, they console themselves by uploading pictures of beautiful ladies they barely know or they will update status hying themselves. You will see something like, she who loses me has lost diamonds 

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9. They Flare Up When People Say The Good Sides Of Ladies 

They will always have a contrary opinion when other people say good things about ladies.

10. Free feel to add the last one