I know that almost each man thinks he is the best stallion during s*x, but we all should admit that we may be doing some things in a wrong way.Anyway, there is no better way to improve your lovemaking skills than to learn from your mistakes and those of others. Whether you’re someone in need of a better approach, or just a married man looking to add a bit more spice back into your love life, here are 5 worst and most common mistakes that men make in bed — and what you can do to avoid them. I bet that you will find at least 2 you are doing as well
Mistake 1: Not Focusing on pre-intimacy
In each and every s*x poll of women you will notice the same thing – they complain about amount of time men give to proper pre-intimacy. Although having a quickie is fun from time to time, majority of women express opposite opinions.
Therefore, you should always dedicate at least 10 – 15 minutes for proper pre-intimacy. It should include everything that your woman loves.
From massage, s*xting up to proper dirty talk. It should be something special done only for her to set the mood properly.
3 Ways to Fix It
In order to give her intensive pre-intimacy to get her in mood for s*x, you should try some of the following tips and techniques:
1. Sensual massage – There is no better way to make woman´s body and mind relax than to give her sensual massage. Always begin with her scalp and neck and work your way through her torso up to her legs. You can use massage oils to make this experience even more relaxing.
2. S*xting – You need to realize that s*x does not begin in bedroom! Therefore, you should prepare her mind to s*x even during the day by sending some dirty messages. However, I highly recommend you to read following post in order to not mess it all up – The Ultimate Guide to S*xting.
3. Dirty talk – The biggest and most effective female s*x organ is her brain. If you want to stimulate it and arouse her as well, then I highly recommend you to learn to talk dirty to her. There are some really good techniques provided for free in this article – The Advanced Guide to Talking Dirty.
Mistake 2: Poor & Awkward Undressing Skill
All guys should know that setting the mood is important for almost every woman that you are going to have s*x with! On the contrary, few of us realize that you can kills it incredibly fast with your poor undressing skill.
I know that some pieces of female clothing are often testing our abilities, while others present plenty of opportunities to even spice things up!
2 Ways to Fix It
Do not lose hope, I am going to give you some advice for you to apply even tonight to fix this issue:
1. Bras – Many women invest in expensive underwear and there is nothing worse a man can do to kill their mood than to be lousy at taking her bra off or breaking a clip on it. Therefore, I highly recommend you guys to learn the technique from the video above!
2.Panties – Similarly as with bras, some women invest serious amounts of money in their panties so be cautions when you are handling these. Just take them off slowly in a playful and teasing way. You can even try to do this with your teeth but you will need help of your hands as well to you take them below her ass.
Mistake 3: Lack of Grooming & Poor Hygiene
Getting lax with your daily hygiene routine is a surefire turnoff and an easy way to make your woman feel really sick, both in and out of bed. Not only that. Although women love modern beards, they hate them while kissing or when you are giving them oral.
What is more, if she is giving you a head I bet that having “bush” down there is not comfortable for her. Therefore, you should always pay attention to your daily hygiene, sweating, odor and body hair.
Way to Fix It
Luckily, avoiding this mistake is really simple with these few tips:
Make shower your friend – The easiest way to avoid unpleasant body odor and to smell fresh and clean is to maintain proper hygiene and take daily showers. However, if you tend to sweat excessively or you are working out in any way, you could even shower twice a day. Use manly perfume, Shave that hair and Get rid of bush
Mistake 4: Ignoring Her Verbal & Bodily Cues
This is yet another example of why communication is key. For many couples, lovemaking grows stagnant not because of a lack of trying, but because someone’s missing signals the other one is sending!
Let´s be honest with each other. Although this can happen to women as well, it’s usually more of an issue for us men and our ego. Luckily here are some things for you to solve this issue.
2 Ways to Fix It
As long as you are at least a little bit perceptive and able to concentrate, you should have no problem to fix this issue. Just try out these easy to do fixes and she will never complain again:
Verbal cues – Often, women gives you very obvious hints to what they love. While pleasing her, look for stuff like moaning or expressions of approval like words “oh, yes!”. If you do not notice any of this, it may be time for you to try other techniques and to improve your repertoire. To get plenty of inspiration visit my s*x section that is full of best techniques she will love!
Through body language – All you should be looking for are things like arching of her back, her chest and cheeks getting red, Tips going hard, etc. These are the signs her body is giving you that she likes what she receives from you. If she lacks most of these, then it is time for you to try something new.
Mistake 5: Ignoring Other Erogenous Zones
Ladies often express their hate towards guys who are only paying attention to their main erogenous zones and are not stimulating the others. In other words, there is much more on female body than bosoms, Tips and her clit.
Way to Fix It
There is one simple way for you to fix this mistake:
Explore her – All you need to do is to take your time and explore what she likes, where she prefers to be touched and where she loves to be kissed. Keep in mind: You need to look for cues to what she likes and you’re sure to discover exact places you need to touch in order to bring her over the edge.
Mistake 1: Not Focusing on pre-intimacy
In each and every s*x poll of women you will notice the same thing – they complain about amount of time men give to proper pre-intimacy. Although having a quickie is fun from time to time, majority of women express opposite opinions.
Therefore, you should always dedicate at least 10 – 15 minutes for proper pre-intimacy. It should include everything that your woman loves.
From massage, s*xting up to proper dirty talk. It should be something special done only for her to set the mood properly.
3 Ways to Fix It
In order to give her intensive pre-intimacy to get her in mood for s*x, you should try some of the following tips and techniques:
1. Sensual massage – There is no better way to make woman´s body and mind relax than to give her sensual massage. Always begin with her scalp and neck and work your way through her torso up to her legs. You can use massage oils to make this experience even more relaxing.
2. S*xting – You need to realize that s*x does not begin in bedroom! Therefore, you should prepare her mind to s*x even during the day by sending some dirty messages. However, I highly recommend you to read following post in order to not mess it all up – The Ultimate Guide to S*xting.
3. Dirty talk – The biggest and most effective female s*x organ is her brain. If you want to stimulate it and arouse her as well, then I highly recommend you to learn to talk dirty to her. There are some really good techniques provided for free in this article – The Advanced Guide to Talking Dirty.
Mistake 2: Poor & Awkward Undressing Skill
All guys should know that setting the mood is important for almost every woman that you are going to have s*x with! On the contrary, few of us realize that you can kills it incredibly fast with your poor undressing skill.
I know that some pieces of female clothing are often testing our abilities, while others present plenty of opportunities to even spice things up!
2 Ways to Fix It
Do not lose hope, I am going to give you some advice for you to apply even tonight to fix this issue:
1. Bras – Many women invest in expensive underwear and there is nothing worse a man can do to kill their mood than to be lousy at taking her bra off or breaking a clip on it. Therefore, I highly recommend you guys to learn the technique from the video above!
2.Panties – Similarly as with bras, some women invest serious amounts of money in their panties so be cautions when you are handling these. Just take them off slowly in a playful and teasing way. You can even try to do this with your teeth but you will need help of your hands as well to you take them below her ass.
Mistake 3: Lack of Grooming & Poor Hygiene
Getting lax with your daily hygiene routine is a surefire turnoff and an easy way to make your woman feel really sick, both in and out of bed. Not only that. Although women love modern beards, they hate them while kissing or when you are giving them oral.
What is more, if she is giving you a head I bet that having “bush” down there is not comfortable for her. Therefore, you should always pay attention to your daily hygiene, sweating, odor and body hair.
Way to Fix It
Luckily, avoiding this mistake is really simple with these few tips:
Make shower your friend – The easiest way to avoid unpleasant body odor and to smell fresh and clean is to maintain proper hygiene and take daily showers. However, if you tend to sweat excessively or you are working out in any way, you could even shower twice a day. Use manly perfume, Shave that hair and Get rid of bush
Mistake 4: Ignoring Her Verbal & Bodily Cues
This is yet another example of why communication is key. For many couples, lovemaking grows stagnant not because of a lack of trying, but because someone’s missing signals the other one is sending!
Let´s be honest with each other. Although this can happen to women as well, it’s usually more of an issue for us men and our ego. Luckily here are some things for you to solve this issue.
2 Ways to Fix It
As long as you are at least a little bit perceptive and able to concentrate, you should have no problem to fix this issue. Just try out these easy to do fixes and she will never complain again:
Verbal cues – Often, women gives you very obvious hints to what they love. While pleasing her, look for stuff like moaning or expressions of approval like words “oh, yes!”. If you do not notice any of this, it may be time for you to try other techniques and to improve your repertoire. To get plenty of inspiration visit my s*x section that is full of best techniques she will love!
Through body language – All you should be looking for are things like arching of her back, her chest and cheeks getting red, Tips going hard, etc. These are the signs her body is giving you that she likes what she receives from you. If she lacks most of these, then it is time for you to try something new.
Mistake 5: Ignoring Other Erogenous Zones
Ladies often express their hate towards guys who are only paying attention to their main erogenous zones and are not stimulating the others. In other words, there is much more on female body than bosoms, Tips and her clit.
Way to Fix It
There is one simple way for you to fix this mistake:
Explore her – All you need to do is to take your time and explore what she likes, where she prefers to be touched and where she loves to be kissed. Keep in mind: You need to look for cues to what she likes and you’re sure to discover exact places you need to touch in order to bring her over the edge.
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