We live in times when folks are doing things without really knowing why they are doing them. As a matter of statistics, about 85% of young folks do things simply because they see others doing them.
No one wants to take responsibility for his or her actions so they site an example of how the other guy or girl is doing same.
The crux of the matter is, if you want to do something, say it and mean it. All the talks of, "Who are we now?" after intimacy is absolutely unnecessary, sarcastic, weird and absurd.
Why must it be then you want to swim in a fresh wave of self deception and lies. Tsk!
Eight Ways You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself:
1. Sleeping in a guy's house and expecting nothing
Haha! The percentage of nothing happening when you sleep over in a guy's house is as slim as slim. When you have your own house. Seriously, it's tempting. It's better not tried and then you try it and starts telling him, " I didn't expect that from you "...Shoroniyen! Iro lon'kpa.
2. Trying to mentor a crush
Hehe... Her body alone causes an "uprising" and yet she is the one you decide to mentor. Sometimes, she comes with maths questions and plans to visit you to help her complete her English homework. . Your mind has already completed the job.
3. Dressing unclad in public and getting embarrassed at guys' stare.
They'll come in public and say, "I hate guys staring at my b**bs". Are you sure? Because I think you like it. Our undergraduates today are quite good at this. These days, I wonder how the guys are surviving . Whether the thing is sagged, dried of alive, every girl wants to reveal cleavage and after guys stare, they'll "act" bewildered as though their aim hasn't been met. Duhh!
4. Stealing another girl's bf and expecting to his one and only
What goes around comes around. The law of karma is still keeping on. If ojukokoro pushed you to either "steal" or "seduce" another girl's guy, be rest assured, someone else will steal him from you, even if YOU ARE MARRIED OR SINGLE.
5. Left all the good guys in your church for a bad guy in the club and be complaining he is disturbing you for sex.
This is the worst deception ever. Stop complaining already. You got what you wanted. Good girls liking bad guys, then whom should good guys like?
There are girls who trailed this "fast lane" and began complaining afterwards as to what they should do. I ask myself, "Is she such a dummy?", no offence. " Is she asking for asking sake. How can she not know what to do?"
6. Teasing a married woman and acting shocked when she starts reciprocating
It's easy right? There are only a few married who will stop you at that point when your flattery is beginning to eat deep. Some will play along.
That doesn't make them devils. It's just the way it is. You have to stay clear of married women - especially the younger ones. Remember Karma!
7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc.
While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe.
8. Visiting the opposite sex in a cold and rainy day
It is rainy and that's when you carry yourself with your loosed sweater and jeans trouser.
It's cold and you know what that implies especially when there have been some signals, unspoken words...between both of you.
My point is: Whatever you do, don't put the blame on the next person. Take responsibility for your actions. There is this law called the law of Cause and Effect: Every nuance of whisper, sight, glances,
handshake, reaction and care don't go unnoticed. It's culminating somewhere to be unleashed someday only you can decide.
How sensible are you when that day comes and you start playacting ignorance and insensitivity?
No one wants to take responsibility for his or her actions so they site an example of how the other guy or girl is doing same.
The crux of the matter is, if you want to do something, say it and mean it. All the talks of, "Who are we now?" after intimacy is absolutely unnecessary, sarcastic, weird and absurd.
Why must it be then you want to swim in a fresh wave of self deception and lies. Tsk!
Eight Ways You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself:
1. Sleeping in a guy's house and expecting nothing
Haha! The percentage of nothing happening when you sleep over in a guy's house is as slim as slim. When you have your own house. Seriously, it's tempting. It's better not tried and then you try it and starts telling him, " I didn't expect that from you "...Shoroniyen! Iro lon'kpa.
2. Trying to mentor a crush
Hehe... Her body alone causes an "uprising" and yet she is the one you decide to mentor. Sometimes, she comes with maths questions and plans to visit you to help her complete her English homework. . Your mind has already completed the job.
3. Dressing unclad in public and getting embarrassed at guys' stare.
They'll come in public and say, "I hate guys staring at my b**bs". Are you sure? Because I think you like it. Our undergraduates today are quite good at this. These days, I wonder how the guys are surviving . Whether the thing is sagged, dried of alive, every girl wants to reveal cleavage and after guys stare, they'll "act" bewildered as though their aim hasn't been met. Duhh!
4. Stealing another girl's bf and expecting to his one and only
What goes around comes around. The law of karma is still keeping on. If ojukokoro pushed you to either "steal" or "seduce" another girl's guy, be rest assured, someone else will steal him from you, even if YOU ARE MARRIED OR SINGLE.
5. Left all the good guys in your church for a bad guy in the club and be complaining he is disturbing you for sex.
This is the worst deception ever. Stop complaining already. You got what you wanted. Good girls liking bad guys, then whom should good guys like?
There are girls who trailed this "fast lane" and began complaining afterwards as to what they should do. I ask myself, "Is she such a dummy?", no offence. " Is she asking for asking sake. How can she not know what to do?"
6. Teasing a married woman and acting shocked when she starts reciprocating
It's easy right? There are only a few married who will stop you at that point when your flattery is beginning to eat deep. Some will play along.
That doesn't make them devils. It's just the way it is. You have to stay clear of married women - especially the younger ones. Remember Karma!
7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc.
While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe.
8. Visiting the opposite sex in a cold and rainy day
It is rainy and that's when you carry yourself with your loosed sweater and jeans trouser.
It's cold and you know what that implies especially when there have been some signals, unspoken words...between both of you.
My point is: Whatever you do, don't put the blame on the next person. Take responsibility for your actions. There is this law called the law of Cause and Effect: Every nuance of whisper, sight, glances,
handshake, reaction and care don't go unnoticed. It's culminating somewhere to be unleashed someday only you can decide.
How sensible are you when that day comes and you start playacting ignorance and insensitivity?
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